Tuesday, February 21, 2006

Seeing Red

I used to be a supporter of James Dobson and his ministry. That changed after he blasted The Army a couple of years ago when we had decided to allow employees to choose their benefitiaries in California. He totally used this opportunity to push his agenda forward at the expense of The Salvation Army and the pressure became so heavy, we actually reversed our decision.

This issue was not about supporting the lifestyle of gays. It was completely about allowing employees to choose their benefitiary. The whole thing was blown out of proportion and was encased in misunderstanding. For a person of Dobson's stature and influence to use another organization (church) for his own ends was and is unconscionable.

But now look what's in the news:

A new idea
"The debate over gays and marriage in Colorado has recently taken a different turn from the national debate," Ramesh Ponnuru writes in National Review Online (www.nationalreview.com). "Until a few weeks ago, the debate looked familiar. Gay-rights advocates were trying to get the legislature to enact a bill recognizing civil unions (or 'domestic partnerships') for same-sex couples. Social conservatives were trying to get voters to adopt a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. Now conservative state senator Shawn Mitchell has changed the script by introducing legislation that grants some benefits to same-sex couples — with the support of James Dobson and Focus on the Family," Mr. Ponnuru said. "His legislation results from an asymmetry in the debate. One of the reasons many people support civil unions or same-sex marriage is to get certain practical advantages for gay couples. The main reason other people oppose these policies is that they do not want the government to recognize homosexual relationships as marital, or even as akin to marriage. "Mitchell's idea is to make certain benefits available to gay couples — and to many other pairs of people. His legislation would make it easier, for example, for gay men to arrange to give each other a say in their medical care by becoming 'reciprocal beneficiaries.' But two brothers, or a brother and sister, or two male friends, could enter the same arrangement. Thus there would be no recognition of homosexual relationships as such. (Hence Dobson's support.) - The Washington Times 2/17/06

So now, when he is probably in a similar situation The Army was back then, he does the same thing we did. How sad. Who is going to call him to account?

I hope someone (who can do something about it) catches this and remembers. With all the publicity Dobson got out of that, he should recant and issue an apology . . . OR reverse his decision as he pushed us to do.

5 comments:

kathryn said...

even if he never publicly apologizes, he knows what he did and so does God - and probably many others do too.

Anonymous said...

Are you sure that the story from the Washington Times is totally accurate? I heard Dobson talk about this the other day on the radio and he says that he has been mischaracterized by bloggers and other media outlets. He was complaining that people haven't asked his ministry directly about their position. Instead they have railed against him without a complete look at the issue and his stance. Maybe that is what he did to the Army, but that doesn't mean that it is right to do it to him.

I don't have all of the facts, but think that we should really look closely before coming to a conclusion.

JR said...

James Dobson is on the front line of Christianity, in the media and in the news...something the Army has never been good at (I'm not talking about social services). The Church needs to take a stand. I'm actually glad he torched the Army and holds the Christian world accountable....we can't get upset at him just because it hits close to home in an organization that you love and work for.

Seeker of The Light said...

I'm not angry that he "torched" TSA. If we deserved it, he should do it. However, that was not the case. He mischaracterized the situation as one that meant we supported homosexuality. We did not; still do not. In effect, he blasted us to put his own agenda forward- the fight against homosexuality.

The original situation mentioned, had nothing to do with supporting homosexuality (as does this current issue, which he is reportedly supporting). It was only a case about who could receive an employee's benefits. The vast majority who are in this situation are family relatives, not homosexual partners. To support this is more than reasonable, it is fair and just- the very things the Church should be taking a stand on.

If the Washington Times reported inaccuracies, then it would appear Dobson is getting exactly what he dished out. Either way, he is culpable.

BLUE said...

If it were not for the Army name Dobson would have never made the first issue an issue at all.